JOYCO TIMES ARCHIVE

JOYCO TIMES ARCHIVE

VOLUME 1

Leveled-up Love

Written by Cody Romano

I discovered sticky notes in my house on the evening of June 19th. A trail of notes featuring hand-drawn arrows pointed up the stairs. I tiptoed forward without having any idea where the notes were taking me. A final Sticky pointed toward my bedroom door. The door creaked as I nudged it open.

To explain what I found on the other side of the bedroom door, we have to rewind to the beginning of this story — about 8 hours earlier.

I had plans to grab breakfast with Alex, my best man. When I got into my car that morning, I spotted a plastic Super Mario star tucked into a seatbelt. A red Mario cap was perched over it. Little did I know that the star and cap foreshadowed an adventure. Over eggs and bacon, Alex handed me a manilla envelope.

It was an invitation to a Super Mario-themed scavenger hunt.

In classic Joycie fashion, the message was beautifully designed. It featured a little graphic of Toad. This first clue led me to the Facebook Office near the Space Needle where Joycie & I had our first kiss. Tiff, our mutual friend & officiant, delivered a star tin featuring the second clue.

The scavenger hunt led me to the dog park where my black Lab Emmy first encountered Momo, Joycie’s Labradoodle. My mom met me there, and our following destination was an arcade. After an action-packed Centipede showdown, I earned another Mario tin containing more instructions.

My next challenge was to win a Nerf gun battle. Jacquie, Joycie’s sister, waited in a park holding a toy firearm. She wore a black suit and sunglasses. I managed to sneak up from behind and shout, “Freeze!” A pure James Bond moment. My defeated opponent revealed a final piece of intel: the address to a party.

Now back to the Stickies.

When I returned home to get ready for the party, I followed a trail of Stickies to the bedroom. Joycie had bought me several outfits — button-down shirts, pants, and shoes — for a special occasion. A Sticky on the mirror read, “You look great.”

For the party, Joycie rented the backroom of a bar in Seattle’s Ballard neighborhood, the location of our first date. Dozens of friends and family members dropped in to enjoy conversation, delicious burgers, and Marzipan cake. Golden balloons were strung across the ceiling to spell “JOYCO.”

Those of you who know Joycie aren’t surprised. This is one of her superpowers: imagining unforgettable social experiences and bringing them to life through creative planning.

At last, I completed the Super Mario scavenger hunt. There were no coins, but I unlocked a gold ring when Joycie proposed back to me before the party. Wahoo!

My proposal for Joycie centered around a 600-page sketchbook, an art gallery, and a waterfront escape.

The story begins on a serious note in March 2022. I told Joycie that I needed to visit my grandma who was battling cancer in upstate New York. It was an emotionally tough visit. I didn’t expect Joycie to tag along because we had only been dating for four months, but she cleared her work calendar and made me a packing list.

That was an epiphany for me. I realized that in addition to being a fun, beautiful girlfriend who made me laugh like no one else, Joycie would be there to support me through hard times. I knew I wanted to propose eventually, but it was far too soon in our relationship. Plus, Joycie is the queen of surprises — the proposal would have to be something big!

So, I came up with a plan: secretly buy a 600-page sketchbook, fill the pages with memories, and propose once the book was full. I drew in the book once or twice per week for the next 18 months. I would lock myself in my office at home with a cup of tea and colored pencils spread across my desk. Sounds of Netflix covered up pencil sharpenings.

Some of my favorite topics for sketches: friends’ weddings, birthday parties, game nights, inside jokes, thanksgiving with the Yu family in Portland, family dinners with mom. After a year of drawing, the book had too many adventures to count. I doodled moments from our trips to New York, the Washington countryside, Colombia, and the UK.

The book was nearly full. It was time to pop the question. For the proposal day, a sunny Saturday in May, I borrowed a small art gallery on the waterfront near Seattle.

An unsuspecting Joycie entered the gallery to discover flowers, a photographer, and about 10 memories blown up into framed posters. I hollowed out the last 1-2 inches of the book with a box cutter and Mod Podge, then hid the ring inside.

Finally, as we left the gallery, a seaplane swooped onto the waterfront to bring us to the San Juan Islands for the weekend. We stayed in a quiet cabin near the quaint town of Friday Harbor.

The memories in our engagement sketchbook bring to mind an old saying: “A great relationship makes easy things easy and hard things possible.” Joycie is a tireless empath when times are hard, and she makes the “easy” stuff — date nights & adventures both big and small — feel like a breeze.

Rock, Paper, Seaplane

Written by Cody Romano